As I Prepare to Leave New York City…


City view

In a couple of weeks, I’m moving to Mexico City with the huzzband. Because, you know, New York City isn’t loco enough for the two of us.

I’ve been in a reflective mood lately — ruminating these past 4 years and 7 months spent in la gran manzana. Just as when I left (almighty) Texas, there are things I will miss and not miss about New York, and things I have mastered, and have not mastered about life here. So let’s start with the bragging:


  • The giant, web-like NYC subway and mass transit system. I know it pretty damn well, except the mysterious j/m/z line.
  • Driving in NYC. I’m an expert. I can haul you from LaGuardia to JFK, from Jersey City to White Plains, from Harlem to Battery Park City, all in a timely fashion and absolutely without getting lost. Without getting frazzled? An entirely different matter.
  • Ordering coffee from the coffee cart men parked on 7th Ave between 17th and 18th street. I’m a regular — so well-loved I don’t even have to order. I just walk up, and boom, there’s my iced coffee made just how I like it.
  • Hailing and riding in taxis, although it still makes me uncomfortable to let someone else drive me around. It’s the same feeling I get when I see nannies pushing not-their-own babies in strollers.
  • The job market.


  • The fashion scene. From day one, I have felt pretty much one of two emotions: Pissed for not being in a situation where I can blow a ton of my budget on clothes/shoes, or pissed at how silly and frivolous fashion tends to be and that I wish I could be a part of it.
  • The bar scene. Bars in NYC stay open until 4 a.m, but I’m not sure I’ve even made it to 2 a.m. I don’t consider this a bad thing, though — I just can’t keep up with all the drunks in this city, nor do I aspire to. Thats not to say I don’t love bars – no matter what state or country I’m in — I love visiting bars. My favorite in NYC is Toad Hall, which happens to be next door to my favorite NYC restaurant, Papatzul.



  • The subway. (Although Mexico City has a cleaner, happier subway system).
  • The startling diversity of my neighborhood, Astoria. It’s a glorious melting pot, rarely boiling over.
  • Astoria Park.
  • The often friendly, warm people I have met.
  • The brisk, exciting pace of life pretty much only found in New York City.
  • And finally, the views:

The View


  • The subway. (What can I say? It’s a love-hate relationship.)
  • The political and cultural snobbery. Anyone who is not a liberal and who does not know what a Balenciaga bag, or whatever the latest dumb fashion craze is, may not feel very welcome here.
  • The weather. Good god, the weather is just plain psycho here. And often miserable — just like my final complaint,
  • The traffic.

4 thoughts on “As I Prepare to Leave New York City…

  1. Betty Victory says says:

    I enjoyed NYC so much this last time we visited. However, I had my daughter to navigate me through the various stressfull transportation modes one must take. I would be in a boggle to try to do it myself.

    I enjoyed our gorgeous scenic boat ride around NYC. It was such a treat to be on that small yacht with just a few people on board–it felt like we were priviledged tycoons or somethiing. It is close to surreal to see so many tall buildings in one city area. I enjoyed the great Greek Restaurants we ate at, especially with my daughter, her husband and terrific friends. Dora, I am so glad I got to know you better. It was so great to see Ritchie Havens at the BB King Club and realize his voice is better than ever!!

    Anyway, NYC is a very special place both good and bad. I can’t say it is the ideal place for those of us who are growing older. I am glad I got to experiece so much of the good there. Well, next, off to Mexico City. Thank you, my adventurous daughter !!!…………

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